{"id":5968,"date":"2022-06-08T08:12:32","date_gmt":"2022-06-08T13:12:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aspaen.edu.co\/?p=5968"},"modified":"2024-11-26T05:54:04","modified_gmt":"2024-11-26T10:54:04","slug":"diez-reglas-de-oro-para-el-dia-a-dia-del-matrimonio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aspaen.edu.co\/2022\/06\/08\/diez-reglas-de-oro-para-el-dia-a-dia-del-matrimonio\/","title":{"rendered":"Diez reglas de oro para el d\u00eda a d\u00eda del matrimonio"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Por: Enrique Rojas<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>El psiquiatra Enrique Rojas, en su libro Remedios para el desamor resume as\u00ed las reglas b\u00e1sicas para mejorar la convivencia en el matrimonio:<\/p>\n<h2>10 reglas de oro para el d\u00eda a d\u00eda del matrimonio<\/h2>\n<ol>\n<li>Estar siempre dispuesto a querer y a dejarse querer.<\/li>\n<li>Evitar en lo posible las discusiones innecesarias y est\u00e9riles, aquellas que s\u00f3lo llevan a discutir por discutir y que minan la convivencia cotidiana y acaban quem\u00e1ndonos.<\/li>\n<li>Tener presente que lo importante son las cosas peque\u00f1as, los detalles de la vida cotidiana porque las cosas grandes se presentan pocas veces. Ceder y ceder en este tipo de cosas con poca importancia.<\/li>\n<li>Respeto, delicadeza y comprensi\u00f3n en las palabras que se dicen y que ah\u00ed quedan. Procurar no ofender con las palabras.<\/li>\n<li>Tener paciencia. La vida conyugal necesita de un cierto aprendizaje. Poco a poco se aprende a convivir, a adaptarse al otro y a desarrollar la afectividad conyugal.<\/li>\n<li>Saber tener capacidad de reacci\u00f3n tras los momentos de tensi\u00f3n, los d\u00edas dif\u00edciles, los conatos de estallidos, para saber reconducir las situaciones.<\/li>\n<li>Borrar todos los d\u00edas la odiosa \u201clista de agravios\u201d.<\/li>\n<li>Ser oportunos: saber encontrar los momentos oportunos para plantear los temas escabrosos, para exponer nuestras quejas, para pedir, para corregir\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Intentar luchar para no ser hipersensibles. Quitar importancia a las cosas.<\/li>\n<li>Cuidar la comunicaci\u00f3n con el c\u00f3nyuge. Es necesario adquirir las habilidades necesarias para comunicar y comprender lo comunicado por el otro.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"background-color: #39afc9; color: #ffffff; padding: 15px; border: 1px solid #ccc;\">\u00a0\u25b6<strong> Te puede interesar: <a style=\"color: currentcolor; text-decoration: underline;\" href=\"https:\/\/aspaen.edu.co\/2022\/02\/03\/reconquistar-al-otro-a-cada-paso\/\">Reconquistar al otro a cada paso<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.blinklearning.com\/v\/1675937608\/themes\/tmpux\/launch.php\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/aspaen.edu.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Banner-Familias-DAIP-1.png\" sizes=\"(max-width: 973px) 100vw, 973px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/aspaen.edu.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Banner-Familias-DAIP-1.png 973w, https:\/\/aspaen.edu.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Banner-Familias-DAIP-1-300x90.png 300w, 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